I know that I tend to expect that others naturally are kind, giving, clever, intuitive, motivated etc and that surely isnt a bad thing is it? Maybe to a certain degree it is seeing that I am disappointed more often than I am surprised. But it irks me when I have to be constantly on guard, constantly vigilant, constantly reminding others of how to treat me. Do any of you find that?
On the other hand, sometimes it is better to just keep quiet as the situation sometimes doesnt warrant your energy. Maybe in those instances you need to move away like I do.
I refuse to deal with negative people - its just one of those things! Why should I?
Am I wrong?