It seems silly at first doesnt it? I mean, there are varying perspectives on this ranging from
First Impressions Count
They Deserve a Second Chance
I have always been an advocate of believing the best of someone, trying to see the good in that person, figuring out why they are acting in a certain manner.... is this perhaps the reason why I get such a shock when I am laid KO'd when their true colours show?
I think we all need to re-think this statement without clouding our perceptions with what we would LIKE to see and decide to see things for what they are.
Pity though... seems my bubble has been burst - my ideal world isnt that ideal